I Am Not I

I Am Not I I am not I.                    I am this one walking beside me whom I do not … More

Heal into time and other people

I have been thinking a lot recently about the gap between what is expected of us and what we think … More

New Year Letter

Dear Anthony (I will never get used to calling you Tony) Here are some words of advice from your nearing-fifty-year-old … More

Lifesaving Poems: Rose Cook’s ‘A Poem for Someone Who is Juggling Her Life’

A Poem for Someone Who is Juggling Her Life This is a poem for someonewho is juggling her life.Be still … More

Northern Sky and remission

When I began to recover from my treatment for non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma in 2006 this lovely article about Nick Drake’s Northern … More

Why it’s called Love for Now

Love for Now did not begin with an idea but an illness. As I have written elsewhere, there wasn’t a plan. I … More

On disappearing

I wrote recently about poets who disappear from view, specifically Susannah Amoore, from Faber’s Poetry Introduction 6. My point is far … More

8 great books about dying

The chances are, more of us are mortal than have multiple orgasms -Violet Weingarten, Intimations of Mortality When I was diagnosed … More