You go a talk by a Leading Poet. No one you know is there, but still you sit at the … More
Tag: Life Lessons
Sailing through
Dear Anthony Two cycles down, just six more to go. You are not looking bad, considering. The belligerent doctor who … More
To failure!
I listened to the most wonderful radio programme about failure the other day. It featured Anne Enright talking with clear-eyed … More
Paying attention
Readers of this blog will know I have been thinking a lot about stationery recently. (Actually, that is something of … More
The stationery thing again
My blog post yesterday about the stationery thing provoked more responses than I ever imagined it would. Among the … More
The real test of a poem
I was very saddened to learn recently of the death of Michael Baldwin, the novelist, poet, writing tutor and former … More
Get out of the house while you can
Dear Ant So you’ve had your first chemotherapy treatment. That first night, when you came home and carried the sick … More
Spun in drafts
Damp white imprints dog the feet; snowbound trolley, snowbound street. Her tip of glove to lip and cheek, “Goodbye.” Go. … More
The crying boy at the airport
My wife and I are at the airport of a European capital city. It’s late on a Friday evening, the … More
All you have is now
Dear Ant Isn’t it strange, how quickly you notice your passing from one world into the next? One minute … More
A day so happy
Gift A day so happy.Fog lifted early. I worked in the garden.Hummingbirds were stopping over the honeysuckle flowers.There was no … More
Cancer patients’ reviews of Love for Now
My memoir of cancer, Love for Now, has been reviewed by cancer patients, and former patients, under the aegis of Macmillan … More
At the reading
I get to the reading on time. I find a place near the front, so I can get to the … More
Heal into time and other people
I have been thinking a lot recently about the gap between what is expected of us and what we think … More
What not to say
Just as I do not go around thinking about my cancer all the time, there are times when I feel … More
Another look at Tranströmer’s ‘Alone’
I have been thinking a lot recently about Tomas Tranströmer’s poem ‘Alone’. When I first read it I was taken … More
New Year Letter
Dear Anthony (I will never get used to calling you Tony) Here are some words of advice from your nearing-fifty-year-old … More
On not being grateful for cancer
An old friend of mine wrote to me the other day, out of the blue, to tell me about … More