Things people said when I had cancer


‘I am so, so sorry.’

‘You’re going to be fine.’

‘Fight it, you know you’re a fighter.’

‘Are we going to be poor, Dad?’

‘Is there anything we can do? Anything?

‘It’s not like you had much hair to lose anyway.’

‘Haven’t you got a lovely shaped head?’

‘High-grade, yes.’

‘Not the best Valentine’s present ever.’

‘You are going to feel quite poorly.’

‘Have you any undealt-with anger?’

‘I wouldn’t call covering for you fun.’

‘Hello, cancer-boy!’

‘Shit happens.’



Love for Now




  1. Josephine Corcoran

    “Hello cancer-boy!” I actually love this one. Andrew was teasing our son about wanting to take a day off school because he had a bad cold and kept calling him “Sick Note.” Johnny came back with “I don’t know why you’re calling me Sick Note – you’re the one with cancer!”. It felt fantastic to laugh. Great post/poem. – J xx

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  2. shelbykayburke

    Wow this is breath taking. I know people who have had cancer, or currently do and I never stop to think of what others may say. Your friends and family change the way they speak to you when you are sick, but to see that may not have happened to you, shows what an amazing group of people you are surrounded by.

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    • Anthony Wilson

      Thank you for your kind comment. Even now, when friends of mine are diagnosed with cancer, I still find it hard to know what to say, even though I have been through it. But talking always helps. Always.


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